Why I walked the runway for Victoria’s Secret

Hey, beautiful!

I'm so excited to finally launch this newsletter and connect with you all on an (even) more personal level. Whether you've been following me for years or are just joining the ride, I'm really glad you’re here. This is where I’ll be spilling all the behind-the-scenes tea and sharing pics from my recent trips that didn’t make it to socials—get ready for the good stuff!

Life has been a whirlwind lately, from traveling to South Korea and hitting the runway to prepping for the holidays. October also marked another trip around the sun for me. I celebrated with close friends and family at a Beetlejuice-themed house party, and it was a very dark, sexy reminder of how grateful I am for all the love in my life.

Seoul Searching

I took a girls' trip to Seoul, and it was a feast for the senses—the ideal blend of bonding, bopping around, and going to bed early so we could wake up and do it all over again. There's something so fulfilling about immersing myself in the history and culture of a place. And the hospitality in South Korea is like nothing I’d ever experienced before.

My girls and I explored Gwangjang Market, Ikseon-Dong, and the Bukchon Hanok Village, and visited the stunning Gyeongbokgung Palace and Lotte World Tower, South Korea’s tallest building. I fell in love with a spot called Wappen Shop, where I DIYed the most adorable tote bag. We indulged in incredible food from Kwonsooksoo and Samwon Garden, stood in line for salt bread at Jayeondo, and ate our way through noodle houses and fish markets. Bulgogi beef, Bibimbap, kimchi-jjigae, buchimgae…we did not have a bad meal the entire trip! And while Sake's not really my thing, I did get down with some delicious Korean beers, like Terra and Cass.

K-Beauty Obsessed

When we weren’t eating or drinking, we were steeping ourselves in Korean beauty culture. I totally leaned into the serums, lotions, and sunscreens. And let me tell you, it is infinitely better than what we're doing in America. I’m not a Botox or filler girl, but I got a bunch of rejuvenating facials—one of my favorites was the Pink Aestrogen Peel, a hydrating treatment that left my skin plump and glowy.

I also may have developed a teeny-tiny obsession with Olive Young, a kind of K-beauty Sephora. I loved that you could describe a skin issue, and they’d take you right to the best products. I went three times and brought home a ton of sheet masks.

What’s “Perfect”? 

In South Korea, the dedication to looking “perfect” doesn’t stop at skincare; plastic surgery is also super popular, with women (and teenage girls) reshaping their faces to get a desired slim, narrow look. I’m always interested in learning how different cultures approach beauty and the pressures associated with conforming to unrealistic standards. This trip was life-changing, and it gave me a lot to think about. 

The pressure to look a certain way hits all of us, no matter where we come from. But we have to remember that true beauty radiates from the soul. It reflects our inner qualities, values, and character. True confidence is the embodiment of kindness, compassion, empathy, and authenticity—all traits that describe Korean culture.

Runway Representation

Speaking of confidence, it was an honor to walk in the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. I'm not gonna lie, I had mixed feelings about it. Growing up, it wasn't on my radar; I felt like Victoria’s Secret didn't care about women who looked like me. But I said yes because I wanted to represent those who don't typically see themselves on the runway.

I knew people would have strong opinions, both positive and negative. But I'm so glad I did it. I want young women to feel empowered in their bodies, no matter how different they look from the person next to them. No matter how much cellulite or loose skin, or how many children they've had. I did it for that young girl who needs to see someone like her in those spaces.

It’s December, and the season of giving is here! You don’t have to break the bank to give a meaningful gift—sometimes, the best ones come from really listening to your loved ones and finding something that makes them light up. Whether it’s a fun stocking stuffer, a cozy self-care item, or a unique little treasure, I’ve pulled together some of my favorite ideas. From home decor to wellness must-haves, treats for the kids, and even pantry goodies, this list has something for everyone.

STOCKING STUFFERS
Super Lustrous Glass Shine Balm by Revlon
A glossy, hydrating lip balm for a subtle shine. Perfect for anyone who wants a little pop of color without the heavy lipstick feel.

Toe Socks from Happy Feet
Fun and functional foot alignment socks that promote comfort and wellness—ideal for cozy winter nights.

Rif Care All Items Bundle
A customizable bundle of organic, eco-friendly period care products. Thoughtfully designed for comfort and convenience while supporting social impact programs.

WELLNESS AND SELF-CARE
Ashley Graham’s St. Tropez Tan Kit
My self-tan kit creates a healthy, golden glow even in the colder months—my go-to for radiant skin (seriously)!

In-Shower Moisture Splash Salve by Hanni
My current obsession — a luxurious in-shower moisturizer that leaves skin soft and nourished, perfect for combating dry winter skin.

Therabody Theraface Wand
This depuffing wand is perfect for someone who loves skincare and wants to level up their routine – you’ve def seen this one on my IG Stories!

Funori Japanese Seaweed Hair Cleanser + Conditioner from Lanshin 
A natural, gentle way to cleanse and condition your hair, leaving it soft and healthy, this is my current fav!

FOR THE KIDS
Lovevery Play Kits and Sets
Thoughtfully designed play kits perfect for little ones. They inspire creativity and keep kids engaged with beautifully made, age-appropriate toys. We have these for every age and the boys can’t get enough.

Headlamps
It gets dark so early, but these are a game-changer! The kids love reading with them, and our boys are obsessed. Sometimes, it’s the simplest things that bring the most joy.

HOME & DECOR
Bedside Carafe from Coming Soon
Stylish and functional, this bedside carafe set is perfect for anyone who appreciates chic, practical design and get’s thirsty in the middle of the night!

Aesop States of Being Aromatique Room Spray Trio
Elevate any space with this trio of sophisticated room sprays, perfect for creating a calming atmosphere. And they smell SO good.

Resurrection Duo by Aesop
A hand wash and balm set that feels as good as it looks, making it a thoughtful and practical gift for literally anyone.

UNIQUE FINDS
Custom Seashell Martini Glasses from GalacticCraftGifts on Etsy
Handcrafted, whimsical martini glasses perfect for someone who loves hosting with flair.

Le Pill from Coming Soon
A quirky, colorful pill-shaped container for storing wine and snacks, I have one in pink that makes me so happy :)

Colorful Canisters from Coming Soon
Bright and playful canisters that are perfect for organizing or adding a pop of color to any space.

IN THE PANTRY
Ballerina Farm Beef Jerky
A tasty, high-quality snack that’s perfect for anyone on the go or who loves unique, farm-to-table treats. I truly carry a pack of this with me everywhere I go. You can count on me to always whip out a beef jerky stick; I'm not kidding.

Brune Cookies
If you watched Side Hustlers, you know this was one of my investments! These cookies are INCREDIBLE, and the sample pack lets you try all the flavors—because you really can have it all!

Gloria’s Shito “The Curious Vegan, Medium”
Gloria was one of my Side Hustlers, and I am absolutely obsessed with this Shito! It’s the perfect balance of heat and flavor—I put it on everything and if you come to my house you are eating Gloria’s Shito.

TRIP Mindful Mixed Pack
Another one of my investments! These drinks are all about finding your calm—delicious, refreshing, and perfect for unwinding. (I recently made some cocktails with these and they were perfection).

ACCESSORIES & FASHION
Michele Watch
A timeless, elegant watch perfect to mark any legacy — they come in gold, silver, both…! My favorite style I nicknamed ‘Big Baddie Goldie’

Folded Leather Wallet by Acne Studios
A  sleek and minimalist wallet that’s as stylish as it is practical. I love me so Acne Studios…

Puma Speedcat OG’s
These sleek sneakers are a classic! Perfect for anyone who loves a retro-inspired, sporty vibe while keeping it cool and comfortable.

Guest in Residence | Striped Soft Socks
These striped socks are the ultimate cozy treat! Perfect for lounging or adding a fun pop of color to any outfit. My girl Gigi knows what’s up…

UGG Tasman Leather Regen Slippers
I got these for my husband, and they’re a dream! So comfy and cozy—perfect for staying warm in style around the house.

A Bible verse I love
“For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”  Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)

A thought I’ve been reflecting on
The moment you get a gut feeling about someone or a situation, act on it. Don't let politeness or second-guessing hold you back from making moves that could change your life. You take control of your future by trusting your instincts.

A movie I just watched
Martha, on Netflix.  I love documentaries—in fact, I’m married to a documentarian! Watching Martha Stewart’s life play out on screen was super encouraging. It inspired me to keep going, branch out, and do as much as I can with the time I have now. She’s a true renaissance woman!

A new goal for my bucket list
Broadway!

A cause or charity close to my heart
Room to Grow, a program providing families with the resources needed throughout a child’s first three years of life.